Before you start
You only need three things:
- A free Google account
- A computer for setup (phone or tablet works afterwards)
- Your wedding date (a best guess is fine, you can change it later)
- A rough total budget, a first draft of your guest list and any quotes you've already collected
Throughout this guide, light cells are the ones you type in. Everything else is calculated automatically and protected so nothing breaks.
Tour of the tabs
Planly Say Yes Ultimate has 20 tabs. Here's what each one does and what (if anything) you fill in.
Start Here
A quick welcome and a map of the template.
You fill: Nothing. Read it once.
Setup
Your names, date, venues, total budget, guest goal and currency, plus the lists the dropdowns use.
You fill: The light cells at the top (including your currency), then budget categories, meal options, guest groups and vendor categories.
Dashboard
Your countdown, summary cards and 8 charts covering budget, payments, guests and tasks.
You fill: Nothing. It fills itself.
Budget
Every wedding cost with estimated, actual, paid and left to pay, plus a plan by category.
You fill: Items, estimates, then actual costs and payments as they happen.
Guest List
Room for up to 1,000 guests with invites, RSVPs, plus-ones, meals, dietary notes, tables and addresses, save the dates and a by-household reply summary.
You fill: Each guest, then RSVPs, meals and table numbers.
Checklist
About 55 pre-written tasks from 12+ months out to after the wedding, with automatic due dates.
You fill: Tick tasks off, add who's doing what, and add your own tasks.
Vendors
Every vendor's contact details, costs, deposit, balance, contract and booking status.
You fill: Each vendor you're talking to or have booked.
Payments
Every deposit and balance with a status that shows paid, due soon or overdue, plus a tip calculator.
You fill: Each payment and its due date, then tick Paid; your tips.
Seating
Up to 100 tables with seats filled, seats left and who's sitting at each one.
You fill: Table names and seat counts. Guests are seated from GUEST LIST.
Seating Plan
Printable table cards, 4 per row, each with the table name, seats taken and up to 12 names.
You fill: Nothing. It builds itself from SEATING and GUEST LIST.
Day-Of
An hour-by-hour timeline for the wedding day, with a sample day filled in, plus a vendor contact sheet.
You fill: Your times, places and who's in charge; the vendors arriving and when.
Wedding Party
Your wedding party's roles, contact details, outfits, fittings and duties.
You fill: Each person in your wedding party.
Compare Vendors
Three quotes side by side for each category, with the best price highlighted.
You fill: Each option and its price, then your pick.
Venues
Every venue you're considering, with capacity, price, availability and your rating.
You fill: Venue details, visits, stars, pros and cons.
Gifts
Gifts received and thank-you notes sent, with running totals.
You fill: Who gave what, then tick Thank-you sent.
Honeymoon
Your trip dates, a honeymoon budget, a day-by-day plan and a packing list.
You fill: Destination, dates, budget items, daily plans and packing.
Events
Engagement party, shower, bachelor and bachelorette, rehearsal dinner, brunch and more, with event to-dos.
You fill: Dates, hosts, budgets and to-dos for each event.
Calendar
A monthly calendar with every open task and unpaid payment on its due date.
You fill: Pick a month. The rest fills itself.
Shopping
Everything you need to buy, with totals and what's still to buy.
You fill: Each item, where to buy it, quantity and price, then tick Bought.
Ideas
Your theme, style and color palette, plus an inspiration list with links.
You fill: Your theme, colors and ideas you love.
Make your copy
Your planner lives privately in your own Google Drive, so the first step is making your personal copy.
- Open the PDF from your Etsy purchase (Etsy → You → Purchases and reviews → Download files).
- Click the “Make my copy” button. If you're asked, sign in to your Google account.
- Google shows a “Copy document” screen. Click the blue “Make a copy” button.
- Your copy opens. Rename it if you like (click the title in the top-left), e.g. “Our Wedding Plan”.
Tip: Bookmark your copy, or star it in Google Drive, so it's one click away until the big day.
Add your wedding details
The light cells at the top of SETUP feed every other tab: the countdown, the checklist due dates, the calendar and the budget plan.
- Open the SETUP tab.
- In the light cells C6 to C13, enter Partner 1, Partner 2, Wedding date, Ceremony venue, Reception venue, City, Total budget and Guest count goal.
- Pick your Currency in C14 ($, £, €, CA$, A$, NZ$, R, ₹, ¥, kr, CHF or zł). Every money heading in the planner then shows your symbol, e.g. “Total budget (£)”.
- Check the DASHBOARD title: it now reads “The wedding of” followed by your names.
- Read the short tip in B16 before moving on.
Tip: Light-colored cells are where you type. Everything else is calculated for you, so nothing breaks by accident.
Adjust your lists
The lists further down SETUP fill the dropdowns on the other tabs. The defaults work well, so change only what you need.
- Budget categories: 13 categories are filled in with a % of budget for each. Change the names or percentages to suit your wedding, and keep the total at 100%.
- Meal options: list the meals your caterer offers (for example Chicken, Fish, Vegetarian, Kids).
- Guest groups: list the groups you'll sort guests into, such as Family, Friends or Work.
- Guest of: this list builds itself from your two names plus “Both”.
- Vendor categories: the types of vendors you'll hire, such as Photographer, Florist or DJ.
Tip: Each category's plan is your total budget times its %. Raise one category and lower another to keep the total at 100%.
Plan your budget
BUDGET starts with 20 common wedding items already listed. Add estimates now and fill in real numbers as you book.
- For each row, pick a Category from the dropdown and check the Item name. Delete or rename items you don't need.
- Enter an Estimated cost for each item.
- As you book, type the Actual cost. When you pay something, add it to Paid. Left to pay works itself out.
- Add a Due date for any balance still owed and use Notes for details.
- Check the summary cards at the top and the By category table: Planned, Estimated, Actual and Difference. A category over its plan turns pink.
Compare quotes and venues
Before you book, weigh your options side by side.
- COMPARE VENDORS: pick a Category, then enter Option 1, 2 and 3 with a Price for each.
- Best price fills in by itself and is highlighted green.
- Write your choice in Our pick and add Notes on what each quote includes.
- VENUES: add each Venue with its Location, Capacity, Price and Date available.
- Tick Catering included and Visited, give it a Rating in stars, and list the Pros and Cons.
Tip: The cheapest quote isn't always the best one. Use Notes to record what's included so you compare like with like.
Track your vendors
Once you've chosen, VENDORS keeps every booked vendor in one list, from first contact to paid in full.
- Pick a Category and enter the Vendor name, Contact, Phone, Email and Website.
- Enter the Total cost and the Deposit. Tick Deposit paid once it's paid.
- Balance works itself out. Add the Balance due date.
- Tick Contract signed when you have it in writing.
- Set the Status as you go: Researching, Contacted, Booked or Paid in full.
Schedule your payments
PAYMENTS lists every deposit and balance so nothing is paid late.
- For each payment, enter What it's for and pick the Vendor from the dropdown (it reads your VENDORS tab).
- Enter the Amount and the Due date.
- When you pay, tick Paid and add the Paid on date and Method.
- Status fills in by itself: Paid, Overdue, Due soon (within 14 days) or Upcoming.
- Use the Tip calculator to the right: 10 roles are listed in Who to tip, with a Typical tip (US) guide beside each. Type Your tip, tick In envelope once it's ready, and check Total tips.
Tip: Unpaid payments also appear on the CALENDAR tab on their due date.
Build your guest list
The guest list holds up to 1,000 guests and keeps invites, RSVPs, meals, tables and addresses in one place.
- Enter each Guest name and their Party / household so you can keep families together.
- Pick Guest of (whose side) and a Group, and add a Phone or email and their Address for invitations.
- Tick Invite sent when the invitation goes out.
- When replies come in, set RSVP to Attending, Declined or Awaiting.
- If a guest brings someone, tick Plus-one and add the Plus-one name.
- Choose a Meal and Plus-one meal, and add any Dietary notes.
- Use the last three checkboxes to track Save the date sent, Address collected and Returned mail.
- To the right of the table, the By household summary shows each household's Guests (plus-ones counted), Attending and Replied (e.g. “2 of 3”). A household turns green once everyone has replied.
Tip: Give everyone on one invitation the same Party / household name, so the By household summary groups them together. Declined rows turn grey and guests still awaiting a reply turn pink.
Seat your guests
You assign tables on GUEST LIST and SEATING does the counting.
- On SEATING, name your tables (up to 100) and set the number of Seats at each.
- Go back to GUEST LIST and type a table in each guest's Table column.
- Back on SEATING, Seated counts each table's guests, including plus-ones, and skips anyone who declined.
- Seats left shows where there's room, and Who's sitting here lists the names at each table.
- Check the Still need a table list to find attending guests without a seat.
- Open SEATING PLAN to see a printable card for every table: the table name, “x of y seats taken” and up to 12 seated names (guests and named plus-ones, declined guests left out).
Work through the checklist
About 55 tasks are already written for you, grouped by phase from 12+ months out to after the wedding.
- Look at the Phase column and the phase table on the right: each phase has a number of days before the wedding.
- Due date fills in by itself from your wedding date minus the days for that phase. Type over a date if you want a different one.
- Add a name in Who so everyone knows their jobs.
- Tick Done when a task is finished and use Notes for details.
- Watch the cards at the top: Tasks, Done, Progress and Overdue.
Tip: Overdue tasks are highlighted. If your date moves, change it on SETUP and every due date shifts with it.
Check the calendar
CALENDAR shows what's due, day by day, without any extra typing.
- Pick a month in the dropdown at the top.
- Each day lists the open CHECKLIST tasks and unpaid PAYMENTS due that day.
- Your wedding day is highlighted.

Tip: Ticking a task Done or a payment Paid removes it from the calendar, so what's left is what still needs doing.
Plan the day and your wedding party
Two tabs keep the day itself running on time.
- DAY-OF: a sample day is filled in to get you started. Change the Time, What's happening, Where and Who for each moment, and add Notes.
- In the Vendor contact sheet to the right, pick a vendor from the dropdown (it reads VENDORS). Category, Contact and Phone fill in; type the Arrives time and any Notes.
- WEDDING PARTY: add each person's Name, Role, Phone and Email.
- Add their Outfit / size, tick Outfit ordered and enter the Fitting date.
- Use Duties & notes for what each person is in charge of on the day.
Organize the other events
Seven events are already listed: the engagement party, shower, bachelor and bachelorette parties, rehearsal dinner, brunch and more.
- For each Event, add the Date, Location and Host.
- Enter the number of Guests, the Budget and what you've Spent.
- Set the Status and add Notes.
- Use the Event to-dos table to list jobs for each event and tick them off.
Plan the honeymoon
Everything for the trip after the wedding, in one tab.
- In the trip block, enter the Destination, Leave on, Back on and Budget. Nights works itself out.
- In the budget table, add each cost with an Estimated and Actual amount. Left in budget updates as you go.
- The Day 1 to Day 14 plan dates itself from Leave on. Write what you'll do each day and tick Booked when it's reserved.
- Fill the packing list and tick Packed as things go in the suitcase.

Track gifts and thank-yous
Keep a record of every gift so no thank-you note gets missed.
- Pick who it's From (the dropdown reads your guest list).
- Enter the Gift and the Occasion (shower, wedding and so on), and tick Received.
- When you send a note, tick Thank-you sent and add the Sent on date.
- The cards show Gifts received, Thank-yous sent and Still to send.
Keep a shopping list
Favors, decorations, stationery, outfits: list everything you need to buy in one place.
- For each Item, add a Category, Where to buy, the Qty and the Unit price. Total works itself out.
- Tick Bought once you have it and add Notes.
- The cards show Items, Total cost, Bought and Still to buy.
Collect ideas
A place for the fun part: your theme, colors and inspiration.
- Write your Theme, Season and Style at the top.
- Fill the color palette cells with your wedding colors (Format → Fill color).
- In the inspiration table, add a Category, the Idea, a Link and Notes, and tick Love it for your favorites.
Read your dashboard
The dashboard pulls everything together. There's nothing to type here.
- The cards show Days to go, Budget remaining, Paid so far, Guests attending, Tasks done and Next payment.
- Budget and money: the budget donut (paid, still to pay, not yet planned), spending by category (planned vs. actual), payments (paid vs. due) and vendor costs.
- Guests: the RSVP progress bar, meal choices and guests by group.
- Tasks: the checklist by phase shows how far along each phase is.

Your routine
A few minutes a week keeps everything accurate.
- Check CALENDAR for this week's tasks and payments
- Update RSVPs and meal choices
- Tick off finished tasks and paid payments
- Update vendor statuses
- Check the Overdue card on CHECKLIST
- Compare Actual to Planned in the By category table
- Review EVENTS coming up
- Follow up with guests still awaiting a reply
- Log every gift on GIFTS
- Send thank-you notes and tick them off
- Finish the After the wedding tasks on CHECKLIST
Tips & tricks
What the colors mean
SETUP: the budget % total turns pink when it doesn't add up to 100%. BUDGET: a pink Difference in the By category table means that category is over plan. GUEST LIST: green Attending, pink for guests who haven't replied, grey for guests who declined, and a green Replied count in By household once everyone in that invitation has answered. CHECKLIST: crossed out is done, a pink due date is overdue. VENDORS: green Booked or Paid in full, pink Contacted. PAYMENTS: green Paid, light pink Due soon (within 14 days), darker pink Overdue. SEATING: a pink Seats left means too many guests at that table. COMPARE VENDORS: the cheapest quote in each row turns green. GIFTS: pink until the thank-you note is sent. EVENTS: green Booked or Done, and finished event to-dos are crossed out. HONEYMOON and SHOPPING: crossed out once packed or bought. CALENDAR: the wedding day is pink, today is green, and days from other months are faded.
Plan together
Click Share in the top-right and add your partner's email as an Editor, so you both update the same planner.
Use it on your phone
Install the free Google Sheets app and open your copy. Updating an RSVP or ticking a payment takes seconds.
Share one tab with helpers
Your maid of honor or best man only needs EVENTS and DAY-OF. Share the planner as a Viewer, or download a tab as a PDF for them.
Start with the core tabs
SETUP, BUDGET, GUEST LIST and CHECKLIST get you most of the way. Open the extras like HONEYMOON and IDEAS when you have time.
Keep a backup
File → Make a copy any time to save a snapshot. It's handy before big changes.
Prefer dark mode?
Your order includes a Dark Mode edition with the same tabs and formulas. Open the link in your PDF and tap “Make my dark copy”. You can keep both and use whichever you like.
Troubleshooting
Why is a cell pink?
Pink is the planner's way of saying something needs a look: a guest who hasn't replied, an overdue task or payment, a category over plan or a table with too many guests. Fix the cause and the pink clears by itself. The tip "What the colors mean" lists every one.
I don't see “Make a copy”.
Make sure you're signed in to a Google account. On a phone, open the link in your browser (not the Etsy app) or in the Google Sheets app.
A cell says it's protected when I type.
That cell holds a formula. Type only in the light input cells. That's what keeps everything calculating correctly.
The countdown or due dates look wrong.
Check the Wedding date on SETUP. Every countdown, checklist due date and the calendar highlight are worked out from it.
A task or payment isn't on the calendar.
Check that it has a due date in the month you picked and that it isn't already ticked Done or Paid.
A guest isn't showing on SEATING or in the GIFTS dropdown.
Check the guest's name and Table on GUEST LIST. Tables must match a table name on SEATING exactly, and declined guests aren't seated.
Amounts show the wrong currency symbol.
Pick your currency in C14 on SETUP. Amounts are plain numbers, and every money heading switches to the symbol you choose.
Dates look wrong (day and month swapped).
File → Settings → Locale controls the date format. Pick your country and the dates switch to your format.
Still stuck? Message us on Etsy or email help.planly@gmail.com and a real person will help.
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